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Who Chooses and Who Chases Men Or Women?

There's one factor that is common to all who experience problems with MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) versus those who don't. Simply put, those who are satisfied with their level of success have .
(June 24, 2008)
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Dating Tips For Guys The Difference Between Nice and Mr Nice ..

Since we've all read countless articles and heard endless audio on how “nice guys" don't get women, you'd think we've probably gotten the message by now. Sure, we've had it drummed into our ..
(June 29, 2008)
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Can You Get Just ONE Person to Be Attracted to You?

I have to admit something to you. I almost changed the title of this article, mostly because there is a very real possibility you're already thinking I'm about to write about something completely ..
(July 05, 2008)
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Barely Legal Older Guys Dating Teenagers?

Are you an NBA fan? If you watched the playoffs, then no doubt you saw the T-Mobile commercial where Charles Barkley is constantly calling D-Wade. Hilarious stuff, particularly when Chuck inanely ..
(July 10, 2008)
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7 Ways to Tell If You Are Settling For the Wrong Person

Just yesterday, I was on the phone with a friend. During the course of the conversation, we began talking about how amazing it is that so many people are more willing to take the first option that ..
(July 27, 2008)
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Are All the Women Teasing Us, Or What?

Take for example the concept of whether or not women really enjoy sex. For guys who would like to be physical with a woman, but are as yet unsuccessful at doing so, the easiest assumption to make is .
(July 27, 2008)
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The User's Guide To Valentine's Day

Yes, I realize the title of this newsletter can be read in at least two different ways. I'm still cracking up over that, actually. Chalk that one up to that pet peeve of mine regarding how diamonds ..
(February 09, 2008)
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Six Reasons Guys Stay With The Wrong Woman Instead Of Breaking .

By now you know that we talk a lot around here about deserving what we want. By definition, this means becoming the kind person who can attract the MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) we dream about. .
(January 30, 2008)
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Best First Date Idea For Wintertime

Here is some Q & A that went on recently between a reader and I. While there are some key general principles in there about setting up oneself for success on first dates, the greatest takeaway is .
(January 24, 2008)
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Effective Online Dating Profile Pictures - A Surefire Secret

Okay, hopefully all the guys know by now to keep their shirts on for their online dating pics. And to not post pictures that look like they're about to kill someone. And to avoid pics taken at strip ..
(January 24, 2008)
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Women Want A Man Who Will Lead - Here's Proof

In the latest edition of the X & Y Communications weekly newsletter, I shared an e-mail from a man who had been dating a particularly sharp woman. She had been showing some clear signs of ..
(January 24, 2008)
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She Thinks I Hung The Moon

And she's absolutely correct. But it was nothing, really. And no false humility intended; all it took was a nail and one good whack from a hammer. Here it is: What you see to the left isn't really ..
(January 24, 2008)
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Would James Bond Ever Land In The "Just Be Friends" Zone?

Some guys get all the luck. My next-door neighbor's actual license tag is “007 JBF". So let's get to the point. Noticing this license plate, the gears in my head started turning, which is ..
(January 24, 2008)
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Thou Shalt Not Hold Her Purse For Her

Has this ever happened to you? You, as a man, image of masculinity such that you are, are in the company of a woman (as is often the case, we hope). Maybe you are at the mall (as is not often the ..
(January 24, 2008)
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Get What You Want Without Feeling Selfish

I gave serious thought to naming this week's bit “The Selfish Man's Guide To Success With Women". After all, that's really a fitting title. But the problem is that nobody wants to be cast as ..
(January 24, 2008)
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How's Your Attitude Toward Women Doing?

You know well enough by now that we talk a lot around here about “deserving what you want". The premise is simple but often overlooked: In order to get a great woman, you've GOT to be the kind ..
(December 13, 2007)
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Double-Barreled Dating Disaster

Today’s topic is one that I have been kicking around in my mind for a long time. And no worries, it’s a purely subjective concept so it’s not like I’m going to go “Chris .
(July 03, 2007)
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Dating Success - Doubt In The Face Of Belief

All of us are inspired when we hear stories of BELIEF in the face of DOUBT. Movies like “The Pursuit Of Happyness", “Rudy" and “Hoosiers" all come to mind. The characters in each ..
(April 13, 2007)
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A Simple Exercise For Eliminating Fear Of Rejection By The ..

There's a lot of talk about “approach anxiety" when is comes to approaching and meeting someone attractive. My personal belief is that we all too often have actually “rejected" OURSELVES ..
(April 07, 2007)
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First Dates: I Gotta Have More Cowbell

First and foremost, if you are unfamiliar with the classic Saturday Night Live piece that inspired the title of this week's newsletter, take five and enjoy the video courtesy of YouTube. Keywords ..
(March 23, 2007)
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Getting Beat By A Girl

There's a lot of talk about “approach anxiety", and for good reason. It has been optimistically estimated that over 80% of all men are terrified of approaching attractive women they have ever ..
(March 10, 2007)
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But I'm 'Average,' How Can I Possibly Deserve The Partner Of ..

Generally speaking I am blessed to receive emails on a daily basis from readers and listeners expressing dramatic life change. I love to hear from people who are refusing to settle and therefore ..
(February 04, 2007)
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Is Your Ex Still Controlling You - Part Two

Last time we discussed ways an ex-spouse or ex-"significant other" can affect you by expressing opinions that you may actually still be considering as factual. Today, we're going to dive deeper. ..
(January 15, 2007)
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Why Most Self-Help Schemes Will FAIL

Most of us have tried some sort of self-help or self-improvement plan at some point in our adult lives. It's only natural to want to change, especially (and stereotypically) at the start of a New ..
(January 04, 2007)
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