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What You Are Seeking is Also Seeking You

For that last five years on NBC's DAYTIME I did a segment called “Reality Check". . . . . Every week I would take live call-ins and deal with viewer's issues. Regardless of the problem, the ..
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What's a Dysfunctional Relationship? (Continued)

Acknowledging true feelings is the beginning of change. You cannot move to a place that works from a place that doesn't work unless you are willing to be brutally honest this present moment. Some of ..
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The Relationship Journey - What We Learn

Relationship is a mirror - Why all of us resonate to the word “relationship" is that there is no better way to know your Self than through relationship. When we are with another person, the ..
(September 15, 2008)
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TRASHtionalizations - Starting Over

STARTING OVER Things You Need to Know Beginning Again: There are good men everywhere. If you feel soft rather than hard, that is good. You will pull to you what you are. If you want something ..
(August 22, 2008)
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Feeling Connected And Sometimes Scared

As far back as I can remember, I have always felt different. When I was four years old, I can recall my father and mother arguing in the kitchen. I remember thinking, “Why doesn't he tell her ..
(April 09, 2008)
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If You're Bored With You're Story, It's Time To Change

There is nothing worse than hearing the same old story over and over again, and yet most of us have no trouble repeating our story. For some reason, we think our tale of woe is different and proceed ..
(April 30, 2008)
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Where Consciousness Expands

The Buddha sat under the Bodhi tree for forty years and asked himself the quintessential question, “Who am I?" His patience was infinite and his resolve unyielding. He knew his old way of ..
(April 30, 2008)
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You Are Only Allowed To Think When You Can Feel

Can we ever really know anything with our intellect? We can analyze, dissect, and re-assemble thoughts to create an acceptable reason that something is the way it is, but in order to touch the ..
(April 30, 2008)
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It Is Our Fear That Creates Our Bravery

We tend to think of bravery as something one-dimensional-either someone is brave or they are not. But we cannot simply decide to be brave. Real bravery results naturally from a state of being that is .
(April 30, 2008)
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Trusting The BS Meter Always Gives Us An Edge

Some call it a gut feeling, others intuition. No matter what you call it, each of us has a little voice inside our heads. Sometimes the voice is loud, sometimes soft. Whether or not we listen to that .
(April 30, 2008)
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When You Are Confused, Do Nothing

When we are confused there is an incongruity between what we are feeling and what we are thinking. Something in our head is telling us to move forward and, at the same time, another equally strong ..
(April 30, 2008)
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When We Love It Is Always About Us

When we love, most of us think our love is a statement about the object of our affection, the one we love. But the truth is-loving is always about us, never about anyone else. That does not mean that .
(May 03, 2008)
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When People Aren't Meant To Be Together Anymore, They're Not

We assign reasons for why people are together as though logic could solve the mystery. But the answer is not so much secret as it is enigmatic. Often, deep in dreams, when we are draped leg over leg, .
(May 04, 2008)
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Men and Women are Different - Enjoy It!

We have spent most of our lives knowing that men and women are different, but somewhere along the way we decided they were not. In the midst of hailing women's rights, the tables were turned, and we ..
(May 04, 2008)
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Love Grows If You're Not In A Coma

How many times have we heard, “The passion becomes less after you've been together for a while, " or “Naturally things are strongest at the beginning"? We buy into these platitudes as ..
(May 18, 2008)
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Being Human Is The Key To Knowing Your Divinity

Rather than leave this earthly realm of pain and suffering for a place of perfect peace, the Buddha chose to remain here. He was not deluded-he was enlightened. He could feel so much what it was to ..
(May 18, 2008)
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The Universe Works If You Get Out Of The Way

Sometimes, things just go our way. We get the job we have been dreaming of, an unexpected check comes in the mail, or things just seem to effortlessly fall into place for no apparent reason. We call ..
(May 18, 2008)
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The Bird Flies With Two Wings - One Of Destiny, One Of Free ..

The bird of happiness flies with that inextricable mix of surrender and freedom. Surrender is its wing of destiny, and freedom its wing of free will. Without both wings, it is forever earthbound, ..
(May 18, 2008)
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When Family Members Are Judged As Friends, We've Finally Got It

With a feeling that is stronger than blood and more powerful than genetic coding, we are inextricably linked to our family. Unlike other areas of our life, where we tenaciously cling to rational ..
(May 18, 2008)
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Agendas Push People Away

We grow up believing it is always important to have plans, but as much as we love knowing what is going to happen, we never like feeling controlled or manipulated. It is a very significant but ..
(May 18, 2008)
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We Must Work From The Outside In As Well As The Inside Out

We are taught that spiritual life requires an inward turning. In doing so, we neglect another part of life that has equal power to transform us-life's outer manifestations. We are so focused on our ..
(May 18, 2008)
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When We Try To Quiet The Mind, We End Up Doing The Opposite

The mind is like a top. It's spinning so fast it appears to be standing still. It is only when the top begins to slow down that we can begin to experience how fast it has been moving. It is quite a ..
(May 24, 2008)
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It Is Only When We Run That The Creepies Run After Us

Adrenaline starts pumping, and it is our hard-wired signal to retreat. Quite naturally, we move away from things we are afraid of. But what if this instinctual reaction is not always in our best ..
(May 24, 2008)
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Taking Responsibility For Your Life Means Not Fighting With ..

It would be nice to know why something happened to us, but can we ever know, and does it really matter anyway? Looking for “why" something happened is a trap we create for ourselves. Even if ..
(May 24, 2008)
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Healing Is A Function Of Consciousness, Nothing Else

The natural state of the body is wellness. When we are sick, we are out of rhythm with the body's band. This discordant note signals a call to attention, a potent stopping point to re-evaluate who we .
(May 26, 2008)
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