I'm coming to the end of a three month commitment. I'm tired. I have some end-of-the-course leader things to do and I'm about to have time to find my own rhythm again. And I wonder - where did I get out of sync, how did I let it happen, and what do I do to regain it?
Where did I get out of sync with my own rhythm?
I let myself get out of sync with my own personal rhythm gradually. It went unnoticed. I just added more and more things to do, did them and in doing so, pushed aside some of the nourishing things I know to do for myself.
How did I let it happen?
The operative word here is “let. " I let myself get out of sync with my own personal rhythm when I made the choices I did. When I stopped reading for pleasure because I was too tense or didn't have time. When I stopped taking time to exercise or cut my walks short because I had too much to do. When I didn't take time to connect with a friend. When I didn't take time to think, to contemplate, to consider what I wanted and needed. Little by little I sabotaged myself and changed my rhythm to accommodate that of other people or the work I chose to do. It is only when a natural pause presents itself that I know that I want to rethink my choices.
What do I do to regain my personal rhythm?
I always go within to see what I really, really want. I make new choices based on what I have recently learned, who I have met, what new ideas I have. And most of all I check within to be sure I am still aligned with my vision and my core values. It may take a few days. When you are ready to regain your personal rhythm, start thinking and journaling. Notice what's different about you and what is in your life. Rethink your intention, your direction and make some new choices.
Go back to your original purpose
At the core of what I love to do is teaching. I love to learn, I love to create ways to share what I have learned with others, and I love to teach it. That means that for me to be the happiest and most satisfied, all my choices need to be about my original purpose - doing things that allow me to learn, create and teach.
What is your original purpose? Make a list of the things people continually ask you to do and what they compliment you on. Then circle the ones that you love to do, that you do easily and well and eagerly. That's gives you insight to what you are supposed to be doing.
Then look at your passion
Whether you are starting your own business, selling a product or service, writing an article, or reaching out to a friend, it is your enthusiasm that will work the magic. And your enthusiasm comes from your passion. I love to teach but what exactly do I love to teach, who do I want to teach, how do I want to teach? One of the things I do is help people bring their passion and vision into a tangible, profitable product or service on the internet that other people need and want. It gives me great joy as I help people achieve their goals while nurturing my own need to be creative and teach. Once you find your passion, look for the people who need want you want to offer. And let them know what you have to offer.
Self-contemplate your way to success
I do a quarterly Magnetic Marketing Method Business Alignment in which I examine where I am and where I want to go. I listen to my body for what it needs - more rest, more laughter, more structure. And I redesign my next three months; not with the idea of adhering closely to the plan, but with the idea of recording my observations and intentions based on what I discovered when I take time to do a “reality" check. What I have experienced today is here because I thought about it yesterday - both the good or bad thoughts. What thoughts do I want to hold now in order to create this next quarter, how do I want to honor my own rhythm, how do I want to keep myself in sync?
Take time to pause, to contemplate and then act upon what you discover. That's how you find your own rhythm in the middle of it all.
Cara Lumen, The Vision Distiller, is a content strategist and internet marketing coach who combines Attraction Marketing, innovative ideas and creative insights to help proactive entrepreneurs create a compelling and profitable presence on the internet. Her Magnetic Marketing Method is filled with ebooks, audios and home study courses to help you bring your vision to life. Find more articles like this in The Success Magnets Emagazine at http://www.caralumen.com