Life is not much of a bed of roses we realize as we walk more into it. Its only in school and college we feel safely ensconced in our world and love taking on challenges.
Out after college as freshers the world is not as kind to us as we expected. While some of us do well and progress, some find themselves in despicable conditions and fall back further. And then there comes a time when we are old and we look back if we really enjoyed our life or it was only a fit of struggle.
Well do not wait to get old and rueful. A proverb goes like this, ‘life's journeys don't always go to the stronger or faster man. But sooner or later the man who wins is the man who say's I can. ’ So you may be small and puny and not the head honcho of your organization. But that certainly does not mean you are nothing.
Self motivation is very much needed in the world of today where life is so fast paced; you do not know what hit you. Everyone is within the axis of his or her own life. There is so much to do and so little time, that one cannot keep in touch with their near and dear ones.
So how do you get self motivated? One great option is to look into the mirror everyday and say, ‘I am proud of who I am. I can do it’. Say this everyday to yourself to feel good about yourself and can are motivated to go on.
Another way is to get into pamper mode. If no one is buying things you want, then buy them for yourself. For instance if you love chocolates once in a while gorge on them. Buy yourself flowers and get to the parlour to feel good. Guys you can watch some great movies, play your favourite games or eat out with friends. These things bolster your confidence and egg you on.
There is a library of books available on self motivation. Get your hands on some. Unlike others say that it is all gibberish, well it does and has worked for over a million of people. So pick the one that suits your taste and try to follow a few of the pointers mentioned. Life is happier and healthier when you believe in yourself and are in the right company. So make more friends and have a great time.
Learn some famous proverbs or the benefits of self motivation and find out ways on how to motivate yourself on these links.