I believe innately we all do our best. We work with the tools available to us at the moment. With that in mind, a lot of us do let one person down a lot. . look in the mirror. Yes that is the person. We do try. Yet often we fall short of the commitments we have promised ourselves. .
Here are some examples (from my own life). I am going to loss 20 lbs. , this month, this is my last cigarette-for sure, I am going to exercise every morning from now on, no more sweets, etc.
There is a common theme is all these affirmations. They expect a lot, some were 100% or nothing. So what did I do, I FAILED! I let myself down. Over and over again.
I had the best of intentions, yet most of the time I FAILED. This was recorded by my ego, so the next time I tried something I always heard “Sure you said that before, and look what happened”. And I knew the voice was right.
Until, I discovered a trick. I started only committing to projects I knew I could do, and would do, no more. And you know what, I succeeded every time! My life changed! I felt so good. And, I was fulfilling my dreams.
Example: I wanted to get the hardwood floors redone in my house. Instead of committing to getting it done (I had been thinking about this for a year already!) I made a commitment to call some professionals and get a phone estimate within one week. Well, not only did I call and get the phone estimate, I had set up an appointment for someone to come to my home to examine the floors. I had set a goal and not only did I attain it, I was a super achiever.
I really got it. I now set small and attainable goals and I always succeed. Of course there is an option to achieve more, but that is now an option. (Another upside, less stress. )
I now “keep my word” to myself. NO more sense of guilt or failure. And it was so simple. In fact I overlooked it for years opting to “struggle”, and try so hard.
☻By setting small attainable goals the hardwood floors were refinished in one month.
Mary Kay Buttery, 2005
A goal properly set is halfway reached. “Zig Ziglar”
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