This article will focus on how you can create a powerful emotional presence that attracts people and good opportunities into your life.
Vividly imagine the following situation that I will be describing, as you read so that you can really start to apply it and enjoy the success.
The frame that I am describing is playful, powerful and flexible and can help you to attract people into your life by improving your life.
One of the most important elements you need for this is to be able to feel good things powerfully. Focus mostly on feeling good feelings and be able to bring yourself back to feeling centered regardless of your surroundings and circumstances.
This makes you appreciate the good and expect the best from yourself and others, while being prepared for whatever happens.
What I mean by this is that in order for them to want to spend time with you it is vital that you are able to enjoy yourself, regardless of your situation or surroundings.
Sure there are some “moody, gloomy rock stars" that can get away with a certain negative attitude yet most of us cannot. This sour negative attitude would simply draw more of the same. Misery loves company.
So you go someplace because YOU enjoy going there and doing whatever it is you are doing there.
It does not matter if it is going to an art gallery or just hanging out at your favorite coffee shop or book store.
It is ALL in your frame and how you carry yourself.
Everything you say, feel, do, think and believe should help to support this frame and make it so.
This frame will draw positive people and opportunities your way as if you were a magnet because most people are not able to do this and will notice your energy and skills, talents, and abilities.
So imagine now that you are a tour guide for the world's most amazing adventures ( notice how this matches my frame which I use for my websites: adventures 2 romance and adventures in trance )
So you are this cool tour guide who knows all the hot spots and can invite someone special along with you.
They are special to you because they have whatever qualities and characteristics that you find most important to you, along with whatever physical characteristics and features you find Attractive.
So basically you are this cool, fun tour guide and your job consists of enjoying yourself and you get to chose who you bring along on some of these adventures. You know who you are and what you like and you know what type of companion you want for this journey.
This translates into you being a fun, cool person who is comfortable with yourself and you go to the places you like and do the things you like to do.
Whether you go there by yourself or meet someone there or invite someone along you have fun. No matter what!
In order to do this it is important for you to be able to enjoy life and have things in your life that mean something to you. So when you describe what it is that you do for a living or what hobbies you enjoy they get to feel that powerful emotional presence.
This powerful emotional presence and enthusiasm, along with an inner strength of knowing who you are and what you want are incredibly attractive to most people.
So play with your own version of this frame and notice how much better your life becomes and how much better people treat you and this encourages you to improve your life even more and more. . .
Michael Twomey is a Success Coach and Professional Hypnotist in NYC. He has helped many people to change their habits, beliefs and improve their lives. He lives with his beautiful, loving and talented wife, Maggie in Brooklyn.