Already on ArticleSlash?

Forgot your password? Sign Up

Getting Engaged What to Expect During the First Weeks

Cori Russell
 


Visitors: 233

Unfortunately, for many newly engaged women, the euphoria of finding “the one" is slightly dampened by a dose of anxiety. Engagement is one of the most significant transitions in our lives. And let's face it, most brides-to-be have never faced such a milestone and are unsure what to expect from those first few weeks.

Here are the first three emotional milestones during the early stages of engagement.

Bask and Reflect

Long before the craziness of wedding planning ensues, you should take some personal time to reflect on the significance of this milestone and mentally prepare for what's ahead. Now's the time to bask in the glow of newly engaged bliss, and it's also the time to ponder any emotional anxieties about getting married. You need to be prepared to shed your single self and embrace your new life as an engaged and eventually a married woman.

Prepare for the Onslaught of Questions

He just popped the question - and you're still on “engagement high. " But the questions will start to trickle in, usually beginning with the moms. They'll want to know dates, times, color schemes, seating charts. . . all while your tongue's still tripping over the word “fiancé. "

Don't let others stress you out just yet. When the questions begin, just let the inquiring know that you're going to enjoy your engagement for awhile before you begin making plans. Take this time to adjust to your new status, and relish these last few weeks free from the pressures of wedding planning. You'll know when the time is right to start planning. (just don't wait too long - some venues book over a year in advance). Once you're ready, you can dive into the wedding details .

Make it a Family Affair

If your parents haven't met yet, they should meet or at least talk soon after the engagement. Tradition dictates that the groom's family calls and introduces themselves to the bride's family and arranges a meeting. If the groom's parents do not make the first introduction, then the bride's parents should. Nowadays, who makes the first call is irrelevant; all that really matters is that the parents meet. If meeting face to face is impossible, a letter or phone call will suffice.

Now's also the time to address any potential family issues or concerns (i. e. your family doesn't like him, his mother and step-mom can't stand to be in the same room. . . ). Handle any misgivings or bad blood early on, and avert potential planning - and relationship - disasters down the road.

Above all - enjoy the first few weeks of engagement, while mentally and emotionally preparing for the exciting, albeit a bit nervewracking, roller coaster that lies ahead.

Cori Russell is editor for Elegala.com and Gala Weddings Magazine. Elegala.com is a comprehensive wedding planning resource with a national directory of wedding venues and services, along with articles, expert advice, checklists and photo galleries to lead brides through every step of the planning process.

(519)

Article Source:


 
Rate this Article: 
 
What Steps Should I Consider After I Am Engaged? Number 1 in a Series of a ..
Rated 4 / 5
based on 5 votes
ArticleSlash

Related Articles:

Executive Coaching For Happily Engaged Employees - What Employees Expect From A .

by: Maynard Brusman (May 14, 2008) 
(Self Improvement/Leadership)

36 Weeks Pregnancy - What to Expect

by: Kenneth Elliott (July 20, 2007) 
(Insurance/Health)

What to Expect at 26 Weeks Pregnant

by: Charles Johnson (June 17, 2008) 
(Home and Family/Pregnancy)

What to Expect When Youre 30 Weeks Pregnant

by: Charles Johnson (June 17, 2008) 
(Home and Family/Pregnancy)

YAY! I'm Engaged! Now Where Do I Have The Wedding?

by: Delora O'Brien (July 15, 2007) 
(Relationships/Wedding)

5 Ways to Keep Gen X Engaged in Your Business

by: Catherine Lang-Cline (July 17, 2012) 
(Business/Careers Employment)

You Just Got Engaged & You're Going to a Wedding Show

by: Mindy Makuta (January 28, 2008) 
(Relationships/Wedding)

Engaged in Engagement - What's the Manager's Job?

by: Tim Wright (December 19, 2007) 
(Business/Management)

Resolve Conflicts - Keep Them Engaged and Sustained Productivity

by: Dave Erdman (May 06, 2007) 
(Business)

What Steps Should I Consider After I Am Engaged? Number 1 in a Series of a ..

by: Judy Yublosky (July 14, 2008) 
(Relationships/Wedding)