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Smart Women Vision Life - 3 Tools To Change Your Future Post Divorce

Sherri Nickols

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Does your life feel like Mr. Toad's wild ride with no end in sight? Just when you're getting a handle on things does a new twist in the road send you skidding? If I could give you a sure-fire way to make your journey more enjoyable would you be interested? Well then, read on for ways to ensure a brighter future.

There has been a lot written about the power of visualization but I never knew just how powerful it was till I tried it first hand. When I divorced I became interested in a man who was about as easy to cross paths with as the president. I had no idea how I was going to get his attention but I had faith I would be shown the way.

I consistently visualized myself with him and told my friends I was going to date him. I could tell by their courtesy smiles they thought I was delusional. I didn't care - I knew somehow it would manifest. My process was visioning, journaling and talking as though it was happening. And guess what - the universe brought it to me.

So, if you would like to be more in control of your future whether that means to manifest a new relationship or experience smoother negotiations with your ex - give these tools a try.

Tool #1 -

  • Journal your new life for 15 minutes every day as though you are enjoying it now.
  • Write as specifically as possible - how you'll feel living your dream, addressing all the senses.
  • Spend 17 seconds verbalizing to the universe what you want and why you want it.
  • While you are talking envision all that you want.
  • Stay focused - if you change your mind or waffle you'll cancel the full power of this tool.

    Tool #2

  • Make a photo album of your new life and study it diligently every day for 15 minutes.
  • Go on Google and grab images of the lifestyle you want or the people you want to play with.
  • Insert your photo and create stories to go with these images. Notice how you feel.
  • This tool will completely change your life. The mind will work to fulfill your visions.


    Thinking, saying and visualizing what you want for 17 seconds is far more effective than applying 2000 hours of action.

    To help you stay focused:

  • write a one-sentence affirmation or prayer for something you want 9 times with your dominant hand.
  • Write it three times with your non-dominant hand.
  • Switch and write it eight more times with your dominant hand.

    As you learn to ask for what you want, pay attention because you will get answers. The final step is to trust what you hear, see and feel.

    Congratulations - by putting the above tools into play you will soon be creating magic. Instead of a wild unpredictable ride you'll be on a rocket heading straight for the moon.

    Bonus Tip - I now invite you to visit for more tips on how to re-invent your life so that it works to your advantage.

    Authored by Sherri Nickols - inspirational coach to women experiencing life changing emotional challenges who are ready to move forward for a sparkling new life.

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