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Your Husband Does Not Talk? How to Get Him to Open Up

Gillian Reynolds

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If your husband does not talk to you about what he's feeling it leaves you in a really difficult position. Women who are married to men who aren't emotionally open often find themselves having to second guess everything their husband is feeling. Most women have actually had to do this from time to time and it almost always results in the same scenario. You make an assumption about what he's feeling, you approach him about it and he shuts down emotionally. It's not an easy road for any marriage but there are things a wife can do to help encourage her husband to share what he's feeling with her.

You first and foremost need to decide whether your husband does not talk because of how he's been treated by you in the past. Be honest with yourself about this. If you two have discussed your relationship in the past and he's been brutally honest with you about what irks him and you've become overly emotional, that's a problem. Many men want to share what they feel with their wives but they don't out of fear of her reaction. If he's accustomed to you breaking down, crying or becoming defensive during these discussions he's going to avoid them at all costs. Many men simply hold in everything because they can't deal with how their wife will react. If you believe that's the case in your marriage, it needs to be fixed.

To do this you need to show, not tell, your husband that you have changed. If your husband does not talk out of fear of the result you need to prove to him that you are emotionally mature enough to deal with hearing about his feelings and his criticisms of you and the relationship. You can do this by remaining calm about any conflict you two have whether it's something as simple as a household task that one of you needs to take care of or something more serious like a parenting issue. Show him that you want to work with him, not against him, to resolve things. If you continually do this he will eventually open back up to you again.

Specific things you do and say can compel your husband to feel closer to you emotionally again. Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause him to feel even more distant from you. If you want your husband to fall even deeper in love with you now than when you two first married, visit this helpful site

You don't have to worry about whether your husband is on the brink of asking you for a divorce. You can control the situation and use specific techniques to naturally make him fall hopelessly in love with you. Find out here what you need to be doing to ensure your husband loves you always.


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