None of us go into a marriage thinking that it could someday end. I think that almost everyone that enters into a permanent relationship thinks that it will be just that, permanent. But for far too many of us our marriage will end in a separation or a divorce, and when that happens the pain and emotional scars can last for years. If you are in a situation where your marriage has taken a turn for the worse and you feel as though you are struggling to hold on then there are a few things that you can do to repair the damage before it gets to the point where it can't be fixed. Here is how to repair a broken marriage, or at least how to start.
All of us change, it is just a fact that we grow and become different people as time passes. Sure there are times when it seems as if we are stuck in a rut, but even then we are slowly changing, even if we don't realize it at the time. Sometimes we grow together with our mate, and at other times we grow apart, but the fact is that we are growing either one way or the other. If you are in a situation where it seems as if your marriage is broken as there is no way to fix it, you couldn't be further from the truth. The real secret on how to repair a broken marriage is to become the person that your mate needs you to be. This will no doubt require some effort on your part, and it will be difficult, but the best place to start is to make a couple of lists. Write down everything that you can remember about your partner when you first met, their likes and dislikes and anything that stood out about their personality. Then do the same list for now. You will be surprised that they have changed as much as they did over the course of time. Now do the same for yourself, being as honest as you possibly can. Take note of the differences, these are where you want to begin your work.
If your marriage is broken because of a serious problem, do everything in your power to change it for the better. Give it some time, be as kind as you can and let things happen naturally. Make sure that you aren't slipping back into old habits by keeping a diary of your progress and soon you will see that things are moving in the right direction.
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