Bear in mind that a lot of the complications of finding both Happily Here & Now and Happily Ever After have to do with the arithmetic of relationship dynamics. For example, with two people, you have two relationships to take into account - you with them and them with you.
If there are three people in a relationship - you, them and one child - then there are SIX relationships in the dynamics - or TRIPLE the possible relationship complication potential of just a two-person couple.
With two kids and two adults, the number jumps to TWELVE relationships - all trying to co-exist Happily Here & Now in the same castle. A formidable task, huh?
And all that arithmetic just assumes the living-together nuclear family. Imagine the number of relationships involved when you count everyone in the extended family - including all the other family members and ex-spouses who are actively involved!
It doesn't have to be. None of these dragons have to win. Doesn't it make sense, fairly early in the relationship, for you both to discuss every possible issue so you can flush out any major deal-killers as quickly as possible?
Family factors and issues, and especially at-home kid considerations, can generate some very hard questions that will significantly impact your DIDO. . . Your day in and day out life with your Hero or Heroine. All of these issues need to be dealt with openly with every ounce of honesty in both your hearts - taking into consideration every relationship that will add to your own expected arithmetic.
If you don't do the math now, some of these dragons might end up attacking just when you thought you saw Happily Ever After on the horizon.
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