Regrettably, this is a way too-often seen dragon that keeps many from even trying to find their own Happily Here & Now path to Happily Ever After.
For what seems like a multitude of reasons, many simply don't think they have the right to choose their own destiny. Approval by parents, spouses (both far past and most recent past), business associates, even friends often seem to be a prerequisite requirement for some folks to decide what they should want in their own personal lives and how they should get it.
This isn't said in any demeaning way - we are all a product of our own unique history - and the history of many seems to have caused them to come to the erroneous conclusion years ago that someone else's approval was still necessary for them.
- Hint: If you are old enough to vote, and have already left home to face the World, then YOU have every right to decide, for yourself and for your own reasons, every decision in life - without needing anyone else's permission. It is as simple as that - and everything else, from this day forward, is just an excuse for not taking control of your own life.
- Second Hint: No decision is also a decision - don't let apathy be the dragon that guides you on your life path. It is almost certain that the path of apathy will neither be the path of Happily Here & Now nor one that will ever lead to Happily Ever After.
Consider it hereby proclaimed forever, as of now, that YOU have your OWN unconditional, unlimited permission to develop every single item on all Three Lists exactly the way you really want.
You have the sole right to decide every trait that is truly important to you in your own Hero or Heroine - and what you want them to be like Profoundly, Profanely and exactly how you want your own DIDO.
You don't have to justify even a single entry to anyone else in the World. No one. You get to fully and completely determine exactly what Happily Here & Now path you want to take to reach your version of Happily Ever After.
All it takes to slay this particular varmint is coming to this same conclusion. Period.
And, poof, this magic dragon is history!
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