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Is It A Good Idea To Date My Ex ?

 


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You broke up a long time ago. Now she says she wants you back. She says it was all a big mistake and that she's sorry she ever walked out. You're still hurting from the way she left but can't deny that you are still head over heels in love with her. Is dating your ex a good idea or is it a one-way ticket right back to the same pain you've been trying to run away from ever since she left? Can you trust that she really is ready to make things work this time around? Is there any hope of making it work this time if you were unable to work before or is this just wishful thinking on your part.

Dating your ex girlfriend can be tricky business. It's even tougher, to some extent, when you still have completely unresolved, open, and raw feelings for her. You're afraid to hope but still so in love with her that you feel the opportunity is far too good to pass up. But that doesn't mean it's a bad idea. You have to look at the big picture and really work to figure out exactly what it is you want before you can make the decision to take her back and give her another chance by dating your ex girlfriend again or if it really is time to move on and get on with your life without her in it.

The one thing you want to think long and hard about before you make your final decision about whether dating her is a good idea or not though is how easy it will be to live with your answer once you've made it. If you decide to walk away will you be able to live with the fact that you were this close to an opportunity to get your ex back and decided not to take it? Here are a few things you might want to look at to help you decide.

Do You Believe She's Sincere?

This is a huge question to ask. If you don't think she's sincere, why give her the time of day. But, before you jump to that conclusion, what would her angle be? Why would she pretend to want a second chance if she really didn't? What would she have to gain by stringing you along?

If you do believe she's sincere, is there any good reason not to see where things take you? You have so much to gain if you're still in love with her and offer that second chance and so much to lose if you don't take the plunge and really go for it.

Do You Think She's Worth the Risk?

This is the final question you need to ask yourself before you decide for or against dating your ex again. If you think that she, above all other women you've come across in life, is worth the risk of dating again then there really isn't a solid reason for holding back – is there?

There is no better reason to work hard to save your relationship from the ashes of its ruin than the fact that you really believe she's the one worth risking your heart for. read more on most popular dating sites also read how to play golf for beginner

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