Good guys finish last. Every one knows that. I bet you have seen a lot of girls that are hanging out with jerks, and you have never understood why they are fall in in love with them. Why they don't want you?
One thing you have to understand about women - they love nice guys but they don't love guys who are too nice!
You must be thinking that if you will be the most romantic guy who will do what ever she wants and will never say “No" to her you will be attractive in her eyes. Wrong! Women don't want someone who will be their puppy. To become more attractive and less nice, but still a good guy you have to be tougher with her. Don't show her that she can do what ever she wants with you. Take an advantage of you and walk over you. That way you are showing yourself as a looser, and women don't like losers.
Also a lot of nice guys always falling into the friends zone, and the way out is too hard. If you don't want to be her friend don't act like one. Don't let her come to you and cry on your shoulder, don't listen to all her problems. It's not your job. Instead of being her psychologist you better take her out, invite her to a drink or watch some movie at your place.
Don't show her that you want her. It just a part of the game! When you are showing the girl that she is got you without any effort, you are automatically becoming boring, expected and not attractive. Let her work a little for your attention, let her make you want you, let her call you and think about you every night before she is going to sleep. That's the only way to make a woman fall in love with you.
Be yourself - you must have heard that at least one hundred times. I will tell you this once more. But you have to understand the meaning behind it. Being yourself it's not being the shy, scared guy who pities himself. By being yourself I mean to accept yourself as you are, act like you want to and not being embarrassed by what you are. Don't look for her or anybody else's approve for anything. Just be yourself - good guy with confidence and high self esteem who enjoys his life and knows that he is the best man for her! With that attitude every girl will want you!
Don't be too sensitive, it her job to be the drama queen. Women expects from men to know how to control their emotions. Every one of us has sometimes bad mood, but we have to know how to act when that happens. Id the girl will see that you are controlled by you feelings, she will know how to take an advantage of it. When that happens, you are making no challenge for her any more and guess what, you are becoming boring, exceptive and not attractive to her!
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