Anyone who's not used to approaching strangers will have a fear of it. That's normal.
Some people will find it easy; some will find it really hard to overcome this. It's like you're
an actor going on stage for the first time in front of a large audience. You will feel your heart
pumping, butterflies in your stomach and a lump in your throat . . . Even the most seasoned
actors will feel anxiety before going on stage, but the difference is that they LEARN TO
So that's what you will have to do as well. Learn to control your fear and
anxiety of approaching women you don't know. Women strangers - man, how scary does
that sound? You never did that, right? You will, my friend, you will!
There are two schools of thought on dealing with the fear of approaching strangers. The
first advocates therapy, as ridiculous as that may sound. In my opinion, doing a few
exercises in your imagination might help somewhat, but won't bring noticeable results.
What I subscribe to is shock therapy. That's how I got rid of my fear back when.
If you want to quit smoking, you won't do it with a bunch of nicotine patches. You'll have to make
the decision to stop for good. From that point on, there is no more smoking. It's the same with
girls. You're standing in a club surrounded by girls. Your heart is pounding. What should you
do? You will decide to end your misery FOR ONCE and approach a girl RIGHT NOW . . .
just one of them. Of course, your first approach won't be perfect. But as the saying goes,
practice makes perfect. And that's why I recommend mass approaches for your first
Look, I really don't care what you say. But say something, and say it to as many girls as
possible. The best environment for this would be a club. For the first few times, make sure
you stay sober. Your only goal should be to overcome your fear of approaching girls.
Alcohol will help with your inhibitions, but the next day, you will be the same person with the
same fears and inner obstacles. Also, don't bring any friends with you. They'll just hold you
back and contribute to your getting drunk. Go alone. If you can make sober approaches in a
club, you will be able to make approaches ANYWHERE. Keep that in mind: ANYWHERE.
Naturally, this is just the first step. On online seduction forums, there are many so-called
seduction “gurus, " who advocate this style not just for overcoming your initial fears, but for
getting girls EVERY TIME. True, it's good for newbies, but not for the guys wanting more. It
takes focus for the most important part: the conversation with the girl. So, once you get used
to approaching random women, it's time to switch gears and focus on approaching the
ones you want.
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