Many men when deciding that they want to attract more women in there life choose the most well known and what they perceive to be the easiest way to learn how to attract women. Which usually consists of running a search online for “How to Attract Women" choosing from a variety of books “guaranteed" to teach you how to seduce and attract the women of your dreams.
While the methods in the seduction books with enough time and practice will almost certainly work, yet, adding the S. M. A. R. T. way to your techniques will certainly enhance your success.
The more specific you can be about the women you want to attract the greater the likelihood that you will find and attract her. Some men say that they just want a woman in their life and whenever one pops up you claim she isn't your type. Now is the time to decide what it is you think you want in a woman, so that you can know what you are looking for.
How will you know when you are at the level you want to be at when it comes to attracting women. Will it be that you are dating a specific type of woman or perhaps it will be when you can approach any woman without hesitation or concern?
Is what you desire in attracting women realistic that can be accomplished and maintained by you?
Unrealistic: To attract and sleep with every woman that I find desirable. Realistic: To engage in conversation every woman that I find desirableResults Oriented When attracting women make sure that you don't get caught up in simply doing activities in which the potential to attract women is there, even though you don't actually talk or approach those women and call it a success.
When do you want to have this part of your life in order?
If you do no give yourself a time frame to work with attracting women is something that will always be something you are meaning to do or that you will work on later. Once you put a date on it you will be amazed at how fast your mind can work to make it happen.
In closing the S. M. A. R. T. way to attract women is
- Be Specific
- Results Oriented
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