You can learn how to get your ex boyfriend back, but only if you understand how to work in harmony with his natural instincts. Unfortunately, most woman have no idea how to do this and end up pushing their ex boyfriend farther away. That's too bad, because getting him back doesn't have to be complicated. With a little guidance you can create a situation where your ex misses you and will naturally be drawn towards you again.
By understanding why a man leaves a relationship, you can use this knowledge to win him back. It's also important to be aware of the common mistakes most women make and how to avoid them.
Most men need to feel like they are getting admiration and respect. It's a misconception that most men leave for a more attractive woman. A common complaint you hear from men is that they don't appreciate all the “nagging" and complaining. He's actually frustrated because she seems so disappointed in him and doesn't see all the good things he does for her and the relationship.
If you're upset you can still talk with him about it. But it should be done in a way that always acknowledges the good things you appreciate about him.
The fear of not being able to get your ex boyfriend back can cause you to start behaving in ways that could be considered needy or desperate. If he feels like you're chasing him, it's likely he will put up an emotional wall and take you for granted.
Calling all the time, showing up where he is, crying or trying to make him feel sorry for you, promising you'll change, telling him you love him and will always be there for him. . . these behaviors, although perfectly understandable, actually make it more difficult to get back together with him. He will take you for granted because he knows he can have you whenever he wants. You need to learn how to spark his interest and desire again. Make him miss you. How can he miss you if you're always throwing yourself him?
Instead, give him some space. If you back off and stop making yourself so available, he can't take you for granted any more. Without any pressure, he will be naturally miss you again. When your ex sees that your are no longer throwing yourself at his feet, he will naturally start to feel attracted to you again.
There is more to learning how to get your ex boyfriend back than just taking a break. This is a crucial first step however. By laying this foundation, everything else will go more smoothly and you can avoid the endless cycle of constantly chasing after him only to be rejected time and time again.
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