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Should You Ask Your Ex Boyfriend For a Second Chance If You Want Him Back?

Gillian Reynolds
 


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Being dumped by the man you love is a horrible feeling. Unfortunately it's something that happens to women all the time. You're crazy about your boyfriend, you are silently planning your future with him and he comes to you and tells you that it's over for him. It's devastating. If you love him deeply there is a way for you to get him back. You do need to be careful about how you approach him after the split, including whether or not you should ask your ex boyfriend to take you back.

If you ask your ex boyfriend for a second chance soon after you two have broken up his answer is undoubtedly going to be “no". Worse than his answer though is the message you are sending him about yourself. If you beg someone to take you back after a break up you are essentially telling them that they are the center of your universe and you aren't complete without them. As romantic as this notion seems to women, men find it annoying and unappealing. You should never ask him to take you back, instead you need to find a way to get him to do the asking.

One act alone can change your entire break up and most women can't imagine doing it. You have to tell your ex boyfriend that you believe the split is the best thing for both of you. You have to hold in your emotions, bite your lip if you feel a tear coming on and gently tell him that you agree completely with him about breaking up. This is going to seem impossible to do if you still love him but it's essential if you truly want him back. What you accomplish by doing this is you shift the feeling of rejection from yourself to him. He'll never see it coming. If he knows you still love him he'll be expecting you to fight tooth and nail to keep him. If you don't you become a challenge to him once again, and he'll be drawn to you. You won't have to ask your ex boyfriend for another chance at that point because he'll be the one asking you.

There are other conscious steps that every woman needs to take if she wants to get her ex boyfriend back. Doing the wrong thing can mean the end of the relationship forever. Find out what you should and shouldn't be doing from this Helpful Site

Don't give up on him if you believe he's the man you are meant to be with. There are specific methods you can use that will make you irresistible to him again.

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