If your ex girlfriend is with someone new and you're still in love with her, you are stuck in a pretty uncomfortable position. There's that old saying that if you love something you should set it free, but that's virtually impossible if that something is the woman you believe you're meant to spend your life with. So is it possible to get her back even if she's already seeing a new guy? It absolutely is and the method to do it may just surprise you.
When your ex girlfriend is with someone new your natural reflex is going to be to insult him to her every chance you get. It's easy to tell her that he's not the right guy for her but that makes you look jealous and petty. It also makes you look emotionally immature and she'll start to question why she ever was interested in you in the first place. If you want to get her back you're going to have to take the opposite approach and actually accept their relationship.
It's not easy to smile and be cheery when your ex girlfriend is with someone new but it's essential in the bigger picture if the goal is to get her back. You want to establish yourself as a friend and confidante to her. She'll be much more open to that idea if she feels as though you are accepting of her choices. So tell her that you think it's great that she's got someone new and then suggest that you two remain friends. Be there for her when she wants to talk and she will soon start talking about her new guy. Never judge him and never take her side when they are having problems. Just be a shoulder for her to lean on. She'll start to feel close to you again and once that relationship ends, and it will, you'll be right there waiting for her.
The things you do after your breakup will either set the stage for a reunion with your girlfriend or will ensure she's gone for good. Saying or doing the wrong thing can impact your future with the woman you love. Find out what you should and shouldn't be doing from this Helpful Site .
There are guaranteed ways to get her back regardless of why you two split. If you're tired of feeling heartbroken and if you're worried about her meeting a new guy, now is the time to get her back for good.