Sometimes after a woman breaks up with you, especially when you weren't exactly expecting it, it is easy to find yourself in a state of mind where you believe your only option is getting her to want to be in a relationship with you again.
This can be extremely difficult to accept because your mind also knows even if you aren't willing to admit it that you have no control over her deciding if she wants to get back together with you or not.
In other words, men who choose (either consciously or unconsciously) to try and get back in a relationship with a woman after she breaks up with them risk becoming stuck in this powerless position when they fail to acknowledge or even see other options.
Whether you like it or not, in terms of options, getting her to want to be in a relationship with you isn't an option.
Waiting around stuck in a state of powerlessness until she comes back is however and one you might find yourself in for a very long time as well.
It's easy to understand why some men can suffer from “alternative blindness" after a break up as it is most likely to occur when your life is thrown off balance and a lot of breaks would qualify as that.
While you might have lost your perspective and ability to think clearly after she broke up with you leading you to temporarily be unable to see any other option besides getting her back.
Now, that you have read this and understood it completely you can regain control of your life by choosing from the variety of different options that will empower you in many different ways after the break up.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.
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