A lot of men come to me after they have spent a lot of time in a relationship with a woman who wasn't giving them what he wanted only to turn around and do those very things in the next relationship she happens to be in.
Of course, this confuses and many times angers these guys because they think if she had done those things for me then the relationship would have been much better and maybe the break up would never have occurred.
Yet, there are at least two truths that you need to understand about your past, current, and future relationships with women.
- What she gave or gives you in a relationship is what you get.
- What she gave or gives you isn't necessarily what she is going to give or gave to the men both before and after you.
In other words, if you are in a relationship with a woman and she isn't giving you what you want, what that means is you aren't getting what you want and at that point you have two options.
- Sacrifice your wants and continue being in a relationship with a woman who isn't giving you what you want.
- End your relationship with her and move on so that you can end up in a relationship with a woman is able to give you what you want.
Another thing that you will find extremely beneficial in situation like this is to make a conscious effort to let go of your past relationship with her so that you no longer care what she does or does not do.
Whether you like it or not in no way does concerning yourself with what she is doing in her current relationships empower or even serve you.
Now is the time that you need to know how much you value certain aspects of a relationship with a woman and what you must and must not have in it.
Otherwise you will continue to find yourself settling for relationships that aren't truly getting you what you want.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.
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