How do I tell that my ex wants me back? Are there tell-tale signs of someone wanting you back?
Yes. Yes. Yes. Sometimes they are really obvious, and sometimes they aren't.
Your ex goes to your favorite places.
One obvious sign is seeing your ex at places you go to. . . that he would never go to when you two were together.
For instance, Sofia liked eating at Kentucky Fried Chicken (KFC) but Brian, her ex boyfriend, hates even the smell of it. He prefers fine dining restaurants and they usually argued over it. One hot afternoon, Sofia went to KFC. Then. . . to her surprise, she sees Brian walk in. Brian went to her and talked to her casually. Now, that's an obvious sign that Brian is still into her.
Conversation with your ex may reveal the only indicators you need that your wants to get back together.
Your ex apologizes.
Listen for apologies about issues that were never resolved during the relationship. And listen to your heart here. Is he sincere? Has his demeanor changed? These are signs that only you will know.
Listen for reasoning about those same or other issues. Is he trying to come to a happy medium with you? You will be able to detect his sincerity here even more so. If he says he will never do this and that again, keep listening. You will know if he's just saying that to get a foot back in the door.
If your ex has changed his appearance for the better and frequents places you go so you would be able to see your ex in this other light, try not to over notice your ex!
Take your time in letting your ex know you have noticed his changes. In the way he acts towards you will determine if he changed for you or if he's done this to get over you. However, if it was only to get over you, why would he go where you are? Right? Once again, you know your ex better than anyone. Listen to your heart.
Your ex talks about you.
If your ex has been talking to your friends about you, that is a dead ringer he's up to something! Call his draw on this one.
If you know for sure he has spoken to some one you know about you, and you are sure you would want to end his plight and get back together, then call your ex up.
Your action plan: How To Get Ex Back
Go over to his house. However you need to get in touch with your ex and tell your ex you know he has been inquiring about you. The look on his face may be priceless at this point. If you do have interest in getting back together, just give your ex a hug and tell your ex so. Otherwise, the rest is up to you.
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