Relationships break up is a painful thing to happen and it is a loss which cannot be healed with words. But the fact of the matter is that you need to survive the break up and move on. You need pick up the threads of your life and hang on to them for good measure. Gradually you will find inner strength and inner peace to get away from the memories of the breakup.
For surviving that relationship break up you need to have adequate amount of inner reserve strength and that strength comes from the fact that you need not despair about what went wrong rather gather the courage that what was not good bout you in a relationship that the partner walked away. In most cases the females will have to take the lead in asking this as guys usually are stronger emotionally to walk away from the relationship. As a female you simply cannot assume that you did not look beautiful enough or he found a new girlfriend that he walked away. Communication is the key.
Even when you are having a word with your partner do not justify your behavior or actions. Listen and only listen. The relationship is already gone then do not try to fix it by saying that in future you will not repeat the actions. This will enable to face the next set of challenges of living life alone and also finding a new someone easy. It will also tell you as to what are some of the compatibility issues that you can avoid with the new boyfriend.
Also never try to look back and say that if you would have done these things would have been different. At that moment in time you did what you did was the best. That begets the basic question about what you do id impulsive or thoughtful in general. If you are impulsive then there a ways to deal with that and if you are not then there are ways to deal with that. Never ever try to change who you are but yes try to be aware about who you are.
Do not plunge into the next relationship after the first break up. Try to go on a hiatus for a week and then think about the things gone wrong. Analyze them and do not try to repeat them. Ask yourself what the other person wants in a relationship and ask what you want in a relationship.
Relationship break up is never good but then it has given you an opportunity to learn and that helps a lot in the longer run. Hopefully you will come out stronger better person with a great deal of inner strength.
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