A break up is an emotional roller-coaster of very difficult feelings to deal with. . . Heartache. Sadness. Loneliness. Depression. Desperation.
You see happy couples walking hand-in-hand and you feel like crying for no reason. . .
If you're still suffering from a breakup:
- You're thinking about it and about him all the time
- You love your ex so much it's “driving you crazy"
- You're feeling constant pain and frustration
- You can't seem to stop thinking about him, no matter how hard you try, you can't turn it off.
You're NOT Alone! Many of us have survived these same heart-broken feelings and emotions.
As hopeless and frustrated as you feel, there is a real and simple solution that can help you. . .
You Can Make Up With YOUR Ex - even after a nasty breakup and even if it seems impossible.
You may find it hard to believe but for almost every break up. . . There is hope!
Even for reasons such as:
. . Cheating and infidelity
. . . Loss of love and passion
. . . Lack of Sex
. . . Plain old loss of interest
. . . Loss of Romance
. . . Neglect
. . . Poor treatment - even worse things. . .
Most relationships CAN be saved!
There IS A Surprisingly Simple Way To Get Your Ex Back! And it begins with. . .
The First Step - Your Opening Move!
You Can Re-kindle His Desire Be with YOU. . . . and even have him asking you to come back.
And I'm going to tell you the first step, right now! But first a word of caution. . .
On-and-off dating can be heart-breaking and even abusive! Always make sure that your reasons for getting back together are genuine.
- Never forget the reason you broke up in the first place. - Never let a man take advantage of you or abuse you.
OK. Now, just imagine, your lover just told you that he's not happy anymore and wants to end things.
You are DEVASTATED. . .
What went wrong? You feel like crying. What should you do?
The thing you should do first is very counter-intuitive to what you feel inside (you still want to stay together).
The first thing you should do is agree with the breakup. What you should say is. . .
"You know Honey, you're right. I've seen this coming and you know what, a breakup is the best thing for both of us.
In fact, I'm glad you brought that up because I've been thinking the same thing for a long time and I agree this is probably the best thing to do for us both".
Whoa! . . . Am I serious? Is this Insanity?
There are a lot of reasons why this works. The main one of them is that. . .
People want what they can't have.
By agreeing with him about the breakup, you are no longer available to him. Believe it or not, this makes you much more attractive to him.
Act as if you TRULY DO NOT CARE what happens to your relationship - and not because you don't care about him, but because you know you'll be all right. . .
- No Matter What! - even if it isn't with him.
You become the prize he needs and wants to pursue in order to “win". When you make this mindshift - Magic Will Happen!
Now remember, this is just the first step -your opening move.
To learn what the second step is. . . Go to: http://www.RelationshipAdviceForMakingUp.com
Carl Willoughby has worked as a licensed Registered Representative with the Prudential Insurance Company. Learn strategies for Making Up after a nasty Breakup by visiting his website: http://www.RelationshipAdviceForMakingUp.com
