Everything seems new in a strange kind of way and scarier than ever before when you get back with an ex-boyfriend. You probably have misgivings still in your gut, but just go gently. If you two got back together, you have to do your part, too. Give him time to show you he is sincere and you show him the same. Take your time and everything will go smoother. If there were big changes in either one of you in getting back together, going slow will give you both a chance to absorb and get used to these changes. You can expect him to be different in certain ways.
The mood may be able to reach tension levels easier. This is because in certain situations, he will be reminded of your past relationship together, and sometimes he may have a problem forgetting. For instance if you two had issues with about the time you spent with your friends or maybe an issue with your mother being too controlling in yours and his relationship. When things come up that remind him of these things, your boyfriend may get tensed up and closed mouthed. Then again, he may outright tell you he's having a problem dealing with a certain issue. This is where you two need to talk it out. Don't let ill will and hurt feelings build up between you.
If you two originally broke apart due to something you did, you may feel as though he is still punishing you. He may bring up to you when he gets it on his mind if it really bothered him before, and you may end up feeling as though he never forgave you and only got back together to punish you. This is another time when you need to talk it out. Let him know how you feel and that the past really needs to be resolved and forgotten. If he can't seem to get over it, maybe it's best you two aren't in a relationship. Tell him this, and see where it goes.
The road may be a little rocky here and there. Over all in a relationship of two people that are back together after a break-up for any reason, things should be better than before. In getting back together, most past issues would have to have been solved or you wouldn't be back together. This is a time where you both need to take your time and be open minded enough to see each other's point of view. Remember all the feelings that hurt your relationship before and try to resolve those right off. Don't let anything stay bottled up and grow into something unhealthy.
Being back together should overall be a rich and wonderful feeling! Enjoy one another as you never did before. You may have trouble believing that you ever broke up with him at all!
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