Are there really any ‘magic’ words you can use to get your ex to call you back? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly activate your ex's subconscious mind and almost force them right away to call you.
Neat huh?. . .
In the Magic Of Making Up, written by TW Jackson, he lays out the complete strategy.
If you use this technique alone, without an ‘overall’ plan or strategy. . . you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call. But before we get into the actual content, let's go over what to avoid and what NOT to say. This can be a critical error and you might dig yourself into am even bigger hole.
These mistakes usually fall into 2 categories:
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like: “Niki, please, please call me. This is the 4th time I have called. I NEED to talk to you!"
And the EMERGENCY- “Sara, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this!"
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches. So, I don't think I have to elaborate on this subject anymore.
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest to Your Advantage
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are curiosity and self interest And here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a formula that WILL work wonders. So. . . Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME you make the phone call
In a friendly tone:
"Hi Niki. It's John. I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate what you did for me. Call me when you can because I want to thank you in person. "
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? Niki will NOT be able to resist! She will be consistently thinking to herself “What did I do?" “What does he appreciate?" And she feels good because it is a positive message.
Now. . .
Before you call you need to do the “Set Up, " which is figuring out what she did that you appreciated. This can be any little thing but it needs to be possible and believable.
But more importantly. . .
You need to have an underlying strategy like TW Jackson lays out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call. If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.
What I am saying is this. . .
What you do before you call her and leave a message, during and after you get her to return your call is even MORE important than getting her to simply return your call. Basically your preparation for when she calls you back is the most important element here. Make sense?
TW Jackson is a lot better at explaining this technique than I am, but I hope that you were able to follow along easily enough. Best of luck to you with getting your girl back!
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