What is the most effective way of getting your ex girlfriend/boyfriend back back? The answer is by using a method that never fails, and that is called reverse psychology! If done correctly, (as you will find out here) you will make your ex long for you and beg you to come back to them, instead of the other way around!
Even though men and women are different in terms of personality, their nature is the same and both always want what they can't have. Think about this for a second, when you're told not to do something, you want to do it more! If you're told not to go somewhere, you want to go there more! The same analogy applies to getting your ex girlfriend/boyfriend back.
This technique is best used with people who are already broken up but are keeping a “friendly" relationship between one another. However, if you're already broken up, not seeing your ex or keeping in contact with them, this technique will work even better!
Here is what you do:
What you're going to do is make your ex want you back by giving them the impression that you're over the relationship and over him/her. There are plenty of ways to do this. One example is you can call up your ex and let them know that you're past the breakup and are over them. Remember, you're not really doing this, but just acting as if it's true. Just make sure you don't overdo it or else the ex will think you really are acting. Pretend as though you're over them. Give off the impression that you don't expect to get back together and act happy!
Another example to illustrate this technique is you can go to any place where you plan on seeing your ex again whether it be a party or just a friendly get togeher and when you're there, keep the same impression going: That you're over the breakup and are not interested in them anymore.
Do not ignore them though! If they approach you or want to talk to you, act casual and be polite. You can also act as though you're not interested in speaking to them or have some other things you need to do and don't have time for them, but whatever you do, do not start talking about the relationship. If they bring it up, again point out that you're over it and are moving on.
This simple technique is going to drive your ex girlfriend/boyfriend nuts, I assure you. Once they sense that you're over them, they will want you back even more. Remember, people want what they can't have and this analogy applies here and if you play your cards right, your ex's need to have you back will build up more and more, until they will beg you to come back to them.
Until that time, keep playing the “I'm over it" game, but without drawing too much attention to yourself. They will come to you, not the other way around! This is by far the most powerful technique of getting your ex girlfriend/boyfriend back before it's too late!
This technique is really a general illustration of how you should go about getting your ex back. Below you will find very powerful tips and a VERY useful video that illustrates specific situations on how to correctly make your ex want you back. Here it is: How To Get Back With Your Ex, Opening Move . What are you waiting for? Go, before it's too late!