So here you are, cruising the internet for love relationship advice. You can surely find a lot of advice out there these days. But how do you know which advice to take? There are a lot of ‘relationship experts’ around. Who can you trust? Used to be, when you had a problem, you just asked your parents, or maybe a trusted aunt or uncle. Or you might have called a reliable friend to help you figure out what to do. Technology has opened up a whole new world for us and we have so many choices out there, that it can make your head spin.
Is your relationship already ended? Maybe your partner decided to call it quits and you think there's still something there worth saving. What can you do about it? You could mope around and feel sorry for yourself, but what will that accomplish? Or you could start taking some positive steps towards figuring out what went wrong and what you can do to fix it. Here's a couple tidbits of love relationship advice that can get you started on the right track:
- Speak the truth and speak it straight from your heart. You could just tell your ex what you know they want to hear, but where will that get you in long run? Honesty is always best and honest words spoken from the heart are pure gold. So when you speak to your ex about trying to work out the relationship, be completely honest with yourself and with them. If they need things you know you can't give, it might be better for both of you to move on.
- Walk a mile in their shoes. Look at the relationship and its problems from their point of view. If you felt the way they do, would you still want to fix the relationship? Which of the issues are you most directly responsible for causing or contributing to? If you can figure out solutions to the problem(s) then you have a place to begin open and honest communication between the two of you.
Here's one last bit of advice for you. Once the two of you are talking about getting the relationship back together, both of you need to be very clear on what you are agreeing to do or to quit doing. You must be absolutely positive that you will be able to honor your end of the agreement before making promises. Making promises and then not keeping them is the quickest way to kill your relationship, so don't do it.
Fixing relationship problems is really difficult if you don't know how.
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