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The Longer You Wait To Move On After She Breaks Up With You The Harder It Gets To Move On

Teddy Shabba

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The moment she tells you it is over is the point where it will be the easiest to move on.

Of course moving on at that exact moment rarely happens because a big part of you wants the relationship to work out otherwise you would have ended the relationship before she did.

So after you have finished the moment together of her breaking up with you and you attempting whatever emergency procedure that you did to save the relationship.

Now, will be the most realistic time to move on and make it easier on your self.

Even though, you might have already passed that point in the break up.

Right now, as you are reading this is the easiest time it is going to be for you to move on.

The longer you wait to begin moving on now the harder it will become for you to move on.

What's worse with each passing moment in time you choose to hold onto her even though she is no longer there, the greater the chances of her moving further and further away from a relationship with you.

In your mind, when you refuse to let go a part of you still believes you are in a relationship with her as you continue to create a false reality of you two being together.

While another part of your mind mourns the loss of this false reality that you created as it knows it is not true.

All of this happens the moment you decide to hold on instead of letting go and moving on.

Each moment you do it, your mind gets in the habit of doing it so that now when you did finally decide to move on, you first must get in the habit of your mind doing something else.

Just so you know this is the real reason why the longer you wait to move on from a breakup the harder it becomes to do exactly that.

Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.

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