When she broke up with you had she already shown a pattern of not being attracted to you?
More to the point did she cheat on you at any time during the relationship?
Certain kinds of patterns in a relationship are simply not good for you and given that patterns tend to repeat themselves you really have to ask yourself if being with a woman who cheats on you and then broke up with you is the type of woman that you want to be with.
What makes this situation even worse is she is exactly the type of woman that is most likely to come back.
Not because your level of attraction increases rather she already knows that she can come back and take advantage of you anytime she pleases.
The only time a relationship like this might end its cycle of "get together-she cheats-make up-breakup-repeat" is when she finds a man who has more to offer than you and is willing to accept the cycle or you can grow as a man and no longer allow her into your life.
When a woman like this breaks up with you it is important that you realize having her in your life is an option you can no longer afford to have.
Unless, you are the type of man who likes to be with a woman who cheats on you then breaks up with you again and again.
If that is indeed the case which I know it is really not, stop looking for a way to get her back earlier as anything you do will only drive her further away.
Then at some point, perhaps even now, stop and begin improving yourself.
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