Are you a great guy with a lot to offer a woman but have no luck in getting women to talk to you let alone go out with you? Do you need a roadmap to understanding women and what attracts them?
Women have become really hard to impress these days. Men can feel intimidated. If you are single and trying to attract women, there are some things you can do that will help you out.
You need to feel confident in yourself. Nothing attracts woman more then self-confidence. Really. A woman wants a man who is sure of himself and acts that way. I don’t mean arrogant, I mean self confident. If you feel that you are worthless, you will give off that impression with you actions and body language and that is NOT a feature that women find attractive. Think about it, is the girl sitting alone at the end of the bar who is not smiling, won’t make eye contact and when approached has nothing to say a woman you want to be with? Of course not. However, that same woman sitting alone at the bar who is smiling, looking around and if approached, begins a conversation with you, is someone most en would be interested in getting to know. The same holds true for men. Body language speaks louder then words in most situation. You need to portray self confidence if you want to attract women. Self confidence will create an instant attraction.
There is also something to be said for “ the copycat”. Do you know someone who always seems to get the girl? Watch and observe him on your next guys night out. What does he do differently then you? Does he have any traits that are easily copied? I don’t mean pick-up lines. I mean, how does he stand? How does he interact with the women he approaches? If you can model yourself after someone who is successful, you are much more likely to be successful yourself.
Take you cues also from body language. If your friend holds himself a certain way and does certain things and it works for him, copying him will most likely bring you success as well. Body language can sometimes speak louder then words in attracting women.
You can also use humor and laughter to attract women. You need to do this the right way however or risk turning women off. It’s a delicate balance. If you can find this balance, you will be very successful. I don’t know a single women who doesn’t want a man who can make her laugh. For some women, it can be the first thing that attracts her to a man. A great sense of humor and the ability to convey that is very important.
Jennie Crawford is the stay at home mom of two small children. For more information, go to http://www.jenniecrawford.com/howtoattractwomen