Sometimes the person you think is the one turns out to be the wicked witch of the west, but that doesn’t naturally mean it’s your fault. Chemistry is the most important factor when dating, so if things start out well at first and then take a turn for the worst towards the end, someone threw in something they weren’t supposed to.
People have different opinions of what they consider to be the perfect date. Perhaps you are one for going to a nice movie, then taking your girlfriend out to dinner, or you like to hang out at home and just “chill". Some people think the perfect date ends with a good night kiss or something a little more intimate. But don’t be discouraged when you date doesn’t go they way you planned. I have been on dates before that have been so fun that the next time I have taken her out, it flopped big time. There really is nothing you can do about that and I don’t expect anyone to get overly upset over it, but as I said before chemistry is the important factor.
People that have been in a relationship for a long time usually have their mate figured out pretty well, but is it that easy finding out what they are really feeling? Do you ever wonder what your girlfriend/boyfriend is thinking about? These are all factors that make for a great date, and sometimes you need to get a little lucky. Reading the situation is always important and bringing up entertaining stories is always a plus.
If you’ve ever encountered a bad date, which I’m sure most people in this world have, you just have to move on. The thing with coping with a bad date is you need to go out with your friends and just forget about it, because believe me, the other person is doing exactly same thing. As the saying goes, there are plenty of fish in the see, and naturally, there will be someone out there for you.
Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in Business Administration from the University of Southern California. He graduated Magna Cum Laude in May 2006. He is currently the Chief Executive Officer of PlanJam – where you can find fun date ideas and romantic date ideas .