"The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because, the average man can see better than he can think. " ~ Anon
Here is a typical complaint: “She used to go to bed in a naughty nightie and didn't care about sweating the curls out of her head. Now she goes to bed with a head full of rollers and a face covered with cream. When we were dating, she batted her eyes, spoke softly, and always looked sexy. But now that she's got me, that all changed. The gently batting eyes and shy smiles have been replaced with frowns, pursed lips, and shrill tones. No more sexy clothes. Now she dresses like she doesn't care what she looks like, every day is a bad hair day, and she's fast losing the curves in her body and developing a pleasantly plump figure. "
I think this is one the hardest issues that happens in a relationship: to be and look sexy. Many women, especially mothers lose the ability to behave sexy when so many things need taking care in the household, especially after dinner when it is time to unwind.
However, from the standpoint of a man, this is also one of the most important elements of their relationship: a sexy woman. So, if you can’t act sexy, at least, develop a sexy body and wear sexy clothes.
After all, how hard it is to have a pleasant figure? My friend Guy complains that his wife does wear sexy clothes; however, she developed such an ugly figure after the birth of their child that he loathes the way she dresses. Conclusion: Sexy clothes in a terrible body does not work: attempt at both.
A joke for you: A man stopped at his favorite watering hole after a hard days work to relax. He noticed a man next to him ordered a shot and a beer. The man drank the shot, chased it with the beer and then looked into his shirt pocket. This continued several times before the man's curiosity got the best of him. He leaned over to the guy and said, “Excuse me, I couldn't help but notice your little ritual, why in the world do you look into your shirt pocket every time you drink your shot & beer"? The man replied, “There's a picture of my wife in there, and when she starts lookin’ good, I'm headin’ home"!
A Word of Advice Ladies: If he likes those stupid black nighties, wear them at least once a week, or when you are in the mood for some good sex. After love-making, go change to your soft pajamas if you wish. Now, for ordinary daily clothes, it is always a good idea to wear something elegant, classy, comfortable, and, of course, sexy.
Gents: perhaps you want to trade some bad habit of yours for the opportunity of seeing her in a naughty outfit? How can you compromise? Talk to her.
© Maria Moratto 2006
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