WHICH ROAD DO I HAVE TO TAKE TO REAR A GOOD CHILD?
The arrival of a baby is just the starting preparations involved in raising a child, as we all know that parenting is actually a life long commitment. All throughout the parenting process, you'll find yourself thinking and even daydreaming about things like wonderful times you will spend with your child, but you have to put that one on hold just for now.
THE PROCESS OF BEING A NEW PARENT.
At the time conception, your gratifying job as a parent finally begins.
HERE ARE THE PROCESSES THAT YOU SHOULD KNOW TO BECOME SKILLED IN PARENTING.
>> To know your own child - we are all different by nature, and we all have a unique character aspect that identifies us to be ourselves. It is a proven fact that most children copy their parents’ actions and even their mannerisms, and desires to follow their footsteps, but there's also those who doesn't want to become like their parents and most of the time defies them. The children that rebels against what you (as the parent) have been used to are the ones you'll need implement good parenting skills with, they will definitely upset you and also leave you feeling discouraged at times.
PARENTING IS A NEVER-ENDING JOB.
A child has to be taught how to take on responsibilities for all and any actions that they perform and they should be responsible for whatever consequences (from doing bad decisions) that lies ahead them. To raise a child into being a good adult definitely takes a commitment (life long that is). A job that is never-ending, that what's parenting is all about. Parenting is the hardest job and that applies to whether you are a first time parent or whether you already have several kids. Parenting is the most underpaid job ever and you do not even earn anything from being a parent.
TEACH YOUR KIDS SELF-RELIANCE
Do not be surprised if you discover that you're really seeking to fulfill what you lacked in your childhood. Moreover, by avoiding conflicts out of fear thinking that your child will not love you back because you do not give everything him/her wants is ridiculous. To teach your child the value of self-sufficiency and to respect the true value of hard earned money, they will surely grow properly, this may be hard but this is a rewarding process and irreplaceable. Avoiding to spoil your child is your choice, but this is the most important time for you to show them and make then understand compassion, to be with them as they moved on towards adulthood.
GET MORE COMPLIANCE FROM YOUR CHILD.
Relate to your child what you are seeing and also state what you would like to see for instance, “Oh you really like saying NO. A example of positive communication is, when your child asks “Can I watch TV now?" If your initial response to allowing your child to watch TV is “No, you can't watch TV right now, try saying, “You can watch right after dinner". Brainstorming with your child as opposed to focusing on what reward/s will be given after they have accomplished a task will prove that you will be rewarded with cooperation from your child.
COMMON CHILD AND PARENT PROBLEMS.
Being a active parent within your child's school, will give you a good idea about how your child's is actually developing in their studies. Parents have been corrected and rebuked many times before for saying “It's way different now" or by saying “Mom that happened years ago" and it seems that children make the same point as well. Of course, parents initial reactions might be of rage about the actual cost of the designer clothes, but come to think of it take yourself back in time reliving your school days, how you felt when you wanted to wear the latest clothes. Parents have the choice and the chance to curve your life's path towards being a good parent.
MAKE MEMORIES WITH QUALITY FAMILY TIME.
All that you should is change the way that you think, this can be achieved with simple steps with just a bit of planning and forethought.
THE FOLLOWING TIPS ENSURE THAT YOUR FAMILY TIME WILL BE STRESS FREE AND WILL ENSURE THAT YOU WILL MAKE YOUR FAMILY MEMORIES LAST FOR A LIFETIME:
>> Remember, it is very important to always keep positive and upbeat conversational topics. Talking about negative topics in the news or anything that is unpleasant should not be done while dining with your family members. Talking about negative topics while eating is rather quite unhealthy physically and emotionally. It is of utmost importance that you discuss serious issues together with your children some times but, that is inappropriate while dining together. Your goal is to produce long lasting good memories from these causal conversations over a family dinner and you want your family to look forward to spending more of these moments together.
>> Plan a simple dinner that is delicious and nutritious, but doesn't require stress while preparing it.
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