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(July 17, 2008) Regrettably, this is a way too-often seen dragon that keeps many from even trying to find their own Happily Here & Now path to Happily Ever After. For what seems like a multitude of reasons, many simply don't think they have the right to choose their own destiny. Approval by parents, spouses ..
(July 17, 2008) Sex, Love, Monogamy. Or, is it love, monogamy, sex? Or, monogamy, love, sex? Or, love, sex, monogamy? Or, monogamy, sex, love? Or, sex, monogamy, love? What do you think is the right order of these? Are you sure? Since we are talking about long-term relationships that might last till Happily Ever ..
(July 17, 2008) This is probably the one dragon you already know all too well because it is one of the most common, showing up repeatedly on almost everyone's path. Like Sirens, you will have dragons of Loneliness or Horniness or Great Chemistryness, or whatever, softly singing for you to give up your Quest - ..
(July 17, 2008) My guess is that most of you have already had relationships galore. Good ones. Bad ones. Regrettable relationships. Forgettable relationships. Relationships that were life-changing. With all of them adding up to too many Cycles through too many of the Nine Stages. All of that experience has gotten ..
(July 17, 2008) Like a diamond, we all have multiple facets that reflect different parts of who we are. Some of us are even brilliant-cut and have 58 facets. . . . . some of us have less. . . some of us have more. If both you and your prospective lover are both brilliant, then between you, you're going to have 116 .
(July 17, 2008) Oxytocin is a hormone present in both men and women, best known for being produced when women breast-feed a baby, and part of the chemical reaction that Mom Nature uses for the mechanics of producing and delivering milk. But like a lot of stuff, it has side effects galore, including sexual arousal ..
(July 17, 2008) "Momomomonogamy and cococococommitment, " she stuttered during her most current anxiety attack. She stumbled just saying the words - knowing what he wanted as the next step in their relationship. Yes, I said “she" - because unlike all the movie and TV stereotypes, this dragon is not just ..
(July 17, 2008) Just like your prior real-life, there are going to be two kinds of rejection you will encounter using The Methodology: You will reject others and others will reject you. Rejection of Them If you are doing a good job of exposing yourself and expanding your Known Universe, then the good news is ..
(July 17, 2008) "I'm sorry but your Method makes no sense to me. I want chemistry first! Then, if that is there, I will take the time to do my lists. " This is one of the most-often responses I get from those who visit my web pages - but who haven't yet taken the time to read the contents. Mutual GREAT chemistry ..
(July 17, 2008) Hopefully, you make it here. All the dating has been wonderful and you successfully defeated every one of the dragons that tried to keep you from a shared path of Happily Here & Now. You have even shared some reality and that part was amazing and incredible. You are both now in Stage One Love ..
(July 17, 2008) Isn't love wonderful? Isn't love terrible? Isn't it terrible how cyclical the Quest for wonderful love seems to be for you? Let me see if I can quickly point to some compelling evidence that might, just maybe, sway your thinking and open your mind to an approach that might, just maybe, be better ..
(July 17, 2008) A consequence of expanding your Known Universe using the Internet is that it is just as easy to have a prospective Hero or Heroine 2,000 miles away as two miles away - although it will seem to you that NONE of the good ones are only two miles away. Which is why this is also known as the ..
(July 17, 2008) Being part Texan, I would joke about this dragon being home, home on deranged - if it wasn't such a serious and potentially violent, and sometimes life-threatening, issue for so many. If your home contains the deranged, that is probably the first problem you need to solve before you can find any ..
(July 17, 2008) Bear in mind that a lot of the complications of finding both Happily Here & Now and Happily Ever After have to do with the arithmetic of relationship dynamics. For example, with two people, you have two relationships to take into account - you with them and them with you. If there are three ..