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(July 27, 2008) Take for example the concept of whether or not women really enjoy sex. For guys who would like to be physical with a woman, but are as yet unsuccessful at doing so, the easiest assumption to make is that women must not enjoy sex at all. Certainly, this is the conventional wisdom among ..
(July 27, 2008) Just yesterday, I was on the phone with a friend. During the course of the conversation, we began talking about how amazing it is that so many people are more willing to take the first option that comes along when it comes to dating and relationships than to do what it takes to become a man or a ..
(July 10, 2008) Are you an NBA fan? If you watched the playoffs, then no doubt you saw the T-Mobile commercial where Charles Barkley is constantly calling D-Wade. Hilarious stuff, particularly when Chuck inanely spouts, “That's why I don't eat shrimp. " Well, despite all the marketing hype in the Seduction ..
(July 05, 2008) I have to admit something to you. I almost changed the title of this article, mostly because there is a very real possibility you're already thinking I'm about to write about something completely different than what I actually intend to address. After all, there's plenty of mainstream dating ..
(June 29, 2008) Since we've all read countless articles and heard endless audio on how “nice guys" don't get women, you'd think we've probably gotten the message by now. Sure, we've had it drummed into our heads that wussies who “kiss up" to women fail. Along with that, it typically follows that we're .
(June 24, 2008) There's one factor that is common to all who experience problems with MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) versus those who don't. Simply put, those who are satisfied with their level of success have control over their dating lives, and those who aren't. . . don't. When your dating life is ..
(January 30, 2008) By now you know that we talk a lot around here about deserving what we want. By definition, this means becoming the kind person who can attract the MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) we dream about. But importantly, it ALSO means we have to know how to RECOGNIZE great ones and ELIMINATE the wrong ..
(January 24, 2008) In the latest edition of the X & Y Communications weekly newsletter, I shared an e-mail from a man who had been dating a particularly sharp woman. She had been showing some clear signs of interest, including staying out with him way later than she planned on date #2. Yet, our hero (in this ..
(January 24, 2008) Has this ever happened to you? You, as a man, image of masculinity such that you are, are in the company of a woman (as is often the case, we hope). Maybe you are at the mall (as is not often the case, we hope), or some social event, or God forbid a sporting event. Out of nowhere, she turns to you ..
(January 24, 2008) Some guys get all the luck. My next-door neighbor's actual license tag is “007 JBF". So let's get to the point. Noticing this license plate, the gears in my head started turning, which is always dangerous. I couldn't help but realize that James Bond (aka “0073) is never in the ..
(January 24, 2008) And she's absolutely correct. But it was nothing, really. And no false humility intended; all it took was a nail and one good whack from a hammer. Here it is: What you see to the left isn't really the moon. It's something called “The Moon In My Room", and that accurately fits the ..
(January 24, 2008) Okay, hopefully all the guys know by now to keep their shirts on for their online dating pics. And to not post pictures that look like they're about to kill someone. And to avoid pics taken at strip clubs. And in the interest of equal time, I'm sure women know by now not to go with the ..
(January 24, 2008) Here is some Q & A that went on recently between a reader and I. While there are some key general principles in there about setting up oneself for success on first dates, the greatest takeaway is the reader's date idea itself. Read on. Hi Scot: I just thought i would email you to see if you ..
(January 24, 2008) I gave serious thought to naming this week's bit “The Selfish Man's Guide To Success With Women". After all, that's really a fitting title. But the problem is that nobody wants to be cast as “selfish", do they? Of course not. Yet, the truth is that if you didn't spend considerable time .
(July 03, 2007) Today’s topic is one that I have been kicking around in my mind for a long time. And no worries, it’s a purely subjective concept so it’s not like I’m going to go “Chris Benoit” on anyone around here. But it’s like this. By now, most of you all who are ..