Getting back together after breaking up isn’t easy. After all it is hard to forget about mistakes that have been made in the past. There still might be a feeling of resentment and mental anguish between the two of you. But do not desperate! If two of you still have feelings towards each other your situation is not hopeless.
Before you will start asking for your ex’s forgiveness and beg to give this relationship another try, ask yourself what have gone wrong. Which unresolved problems and misunderstandings have gradually wrecked this relationship? You need to address those problems. Only then you will be able to convince the person that you love that things can be different from now on.
Don’t pressure your ex to get back with you. You are walking a fine line right now. One wrong move and you can lose your beloved one forever.
Give his/her time to calm down. Time has a wonderful quality as to abate painful memories by intensifying happy moments. It is suggested that you give your ex a month break for every year, that you have spent together.
Try to stay in contact with him or her all this time. You have to become friends again. To do that you should to sincerely apologize for everything that you have done wrong and tell your ex that you understand why he/she broke up with you. After you feel that the person that you want to win back wouldn’t mind to spend time with you, invite him or her for a cup of coffee or offer to join you for lunch. Do not discuss any serious topics. Keep the conversation light. For example, you can tell a funny story about your common friend and then you may bring up a funny memory that both of you have shared in the past.
You have to convince your ex that time when you have been together wasn’t bad. But do not be too obvious about your intention to get back with him/her. Just throw a couple hints that you are still interested in dating your former girlfriend/boyfriend.
If lunch went great and you feel that there is still chemistry between the two of you, invite your ex to go to the movie or to the concert together. Act as if it is your first date and don’t rush anything. Be your charming self. You possess the qualities that your ex is attracted too, otherwise he/she wouldn’t start dating you in a first place. Use them to your advantage! Good luck!
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